tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8732450981122480802.post6345300841985822457..comments2024-03-27T06:25:47.046+00:00Comments on Richard Walker's Blog: Should A Wife Take Her Husband's Surname?Richard Walkerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01992452050525845190noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8732450981122480802.post-38782887549628339082011-03-10T16:49:10.274+00:002011-03-10T16:49:10.274+00:00Great article!!Great article!!Nya Joneshttp://www.rimagazine.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8732450981122480802.post-24921713435782379602010-04-13T13:35:50.302+01:002010-04-13T13:35:50.302+01:00That is certainly a very long name. :-)
I too hav...That is certainly a very long name. :-)<br /><br />I too have never dated a Japanese girl so as yet have never needed to have that discussion.<br /><br />Thanks for taking the time to help fill out my understanding. :-)Richard Walkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01992452050525845190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8732450981122480802.post-37901520802365045852010-04-13T11:44:51.048+01:002010-04-13T11:44:51.048+01:00I might have some of the nationalities confused, b...I might have some of the nationalities confused, but I can assure you that the facts are true.<br /><br />In Japan, the man takes the woman's maiden name.<br />In some parts of China and South East Asia, the man and woman's name remain unchanged and the children take on the father's name.<br /><br />Several years ago, in parts of India the child's name was composed of prefixing the mother's name, the village they came from and finally the house name ! They are the source of much amusement to many Indians outside that community, so frankly we rather they don't change their ways.<br /><br />In the New Testament for example Bartimaeus the blind man whom Jesus healed - we know that he was Bar (the son of) Timaeus. In England you don't follow that naming convention, although it still is followed in other parts of the world (eg. Some parts of India, and South East Asia).<br /><br />I might even go so far as to say that we don't necessarily have to take our cue from the Old Testament because that was the naming convention for the Israelites, but not necessarily relevant to us. <br /><br />However there are a couple of biblical principles that are important and what is key is to see how we can make these principles Biblically relevant in a way that is meaningful in our culture. Within marriage (Eph 5:22-33), the key principles include the husband loving the wife as Christ loves the church, the wife submitting to the husband, the leaving parents and cleaving to the wife amongst others.In the West, some of the ways you can Biblically practice this in the culture is for a woman to take a husband's last name, having a single bank account etc. <br /><br />The influence of feminism has meant several women have kept their maiden name. There are a few instances where the wife's maiden name might be one that is "dying out" and so reason to keep it. I wouldn't tell the church in Japan that they had to move to a western naming convention unless there is something distinctly non-Biblical about why men take the woman's maiden name. I haven't dated any Japanese women so not had to put a lot of thought into it ;-)<br /><br /><br />There are instances when our culture is definitely wrong, and we need to address that in a Biblical way eg. in some cultures where a man is valued over a woman.<br /><br />My biblical conviction and the culture I am in tells me that in marriage, taking the husband's name is the way to go. I think a double-barrelled surname is distinctly feminine and I wouldn't want my son to bear that burden.<br /><br /><br />Finally, if you like long names, you'll love <a href="http://www.cricinfo.com/ci/content/player/50804.html" rel="nofollow">this Sri Lankan cricketer</a>.Jon F from RFCnoreply@blogger.com